Do you have Emotions before Understanding?

If you have more emotions before the understanding of situations and people's choices, then you set yourself up for a big disappointing result (for yourself) and even you might expect 1 answer to always be there and for someone to give it to you in 5seconds. NO! (This is very low chance and anyway humans don't work that way there are 10's of ways of saying things / people have styles to balance and actually were all imperfect too!

SUMMARY
So having big emotions (or not reducing/balancing yourself) often prevents you accept others being imperfect or expecting 1 answer for 1 question which for anything isn't really realistic with other people or even alone for yourself.

ALT WAYS TO SAY THIS
● Life is also a bit of a journey in that way (with or without spiritual inferences meant here)
● Allocate more time and get the benefits / insight