FEELINGS AS A MATERIAL TO TRANSFORM PEOPLE/ALL LIFE...

This "feeling thing" is 100% a real material I believe. One that systems forget or ignore deliberately as the designers prefer 'efficiency' (which turns out not to be when all are unhappy) or for they own agendas... Some because computers are binary based but still meetings and feelings could be the human protocol involved rather than firgotten/cut out...

Largely now, maybe even losing / lost ability on how to handle feelings of almost any kind.

As usual in any depth of relationship its to be expected so to nit have that is teally crazy / unhelpful (to humans).

Strengthening / re-enforcing a relationship is key in everything and don't assume having the opposite extreme but just more feelings 'processed' as part of living.