@continuation For many questions I've noticed there are these types of nuances to the extent that a question or questioner can assume incorrectly in asking anything (like that there is a solution or something is so) or that we are only inside the best of many worst cases to those asking the question and no sunny-sides apart from delaying the inevitable.

The questioner is also in question! (not just to be smart in using the same words there but really difficult balance I've felt for needing to understand a question itself (and check it's written right according to them or how they felt writing it)

And questioning them politely so I can further understand better for the logic even before answering it.

Think of loaded questions for example about religion or God. A terrible position to answer anything and really best not since it's loaded (meaning the asker to emotionally reactive).

Many are not willing to explore and further be open to answering both the question's interpretation and answering it for us both <---- *at the same time* without reaching boiling points or blowing a fuse! :)

Hard work these questions, sometimes. Hope that was readable! :)