@abitofzen
It's like our parents have mentally expired / they are out of date / disconnected and even anti-us (even while they love us) and that makes us to look for other ways and gives us right to create our own way.
As logic and love around for what we like and love often doesn't exist or isn't often (sterilise by many systems), so we must in these cases create and reimagine the ways... which is naturally testing.