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#Mind #Fuck time ladies and gentlemen... a big question of #Ethics here (or something you can name)

If there is a sub-species of human or cancerous type of people (hunters let's say hunting others) and you were sure of it / could measure it (maybe even if they themselves admit it and can't stop themselves) then what would you do...? or what could you do...? read on a bit more for more context...

So as humans we stand for who we are.
If others are against us to such a level... that we are simply not who we are / unable / disabled (systematically or otherwise, perhaps stripped is another words or personally filtered out)

For example in how we see / feel (ask yourself if)
- individuality is near gone /
- humanity is literally not considered in it's enforcement and then it's manipulation in enforcement
- yadayadayada

if that's true time and time again then wouldn't you want those enslaving us gone?
Isn't it the same as before with masters...?
Isn't always just here we accept or have to fight?
And if not fight constantly let them get ground until there is none left and then feel compelled to fight?

I guess this video triggered how obvious the dichotomy is... and either which way we go seems same if personally / systematically mini-fighting like a good game doesn't keep system straight using all people (yes it can be done, no if you expect it easy and no effort from yourself).

If with the snake at the end of video wouldn't you want to kill that thing (ok personally I'd try to capture the snake and put it in better area to keep diversity of these wonderous (and murderous) creatures through no fault of it's own and find the right ecosystem but with people I think it's not possible and we are the one's being hunted even passively using money / rent / private property / laws we have no idea of... all cornering and cut of life if not soul-destroying it outright Native American / Massai / Dutch, Polish, Spanish farmers etc https://leafposter.club/objects/65b7ca4e-24bd-4dde-acc8-b994b600963c )

But then again I wouldn't like to say kill them but at some point I might... similar to too many killer bee's... If we say humans are hunting humans and making nectar from people for themselves and keeping it (the rich, elite, etc)... then there's no good out-come (strangely we've been through many and seems there are just wiser in evolution each time and tech-ing up in all areas of life our work is providing them)... Surely not for peace (no way we would instantly relieve a lot of that IF the willpower was there by controllers who by definition will not want to give any less domination for control)

There is a limit always which they are pushing (not us) and we can't ignore that or wait for next protest always or job-connected forcing of their will vs. ours.

I think also bad people **know** good people are less likely to kill them (basic bully tactic if you know someone is from out of town or grown-up polite) where you can steal anything and they might even apologise.
They use that against us and we also against ourselves and go along with what ends up snowballing any bad (until infestation happens and people sellout the neighborhood) which is where we are now, business of extraction everywhere...

ok that's a mind fuck for me and watch video to kind of get the parallels... woo

A chat via Jitsi for those who want!

#Video #Edit - #Chess related #Music #Video

Full version at first was not that special and even out of context from video collage images (almost stock footage) BUT on editing the video out I realised without 'bad parts' the rest is actually epic in what is said and questions raised and image effects together with theme:

Alter Bridge - Pawns & Kings (Official Video at 2m20s)

https://invidious.sethforprivacy.com/watch?v=aTqN0nh7Avk

or

https://redirect.invidious.io/watch?v=aTqN0nh7Avk

More deeper your relationship, more divisions will be found...
*** But... at the end of that process*** comes something of an unexpected flower or bloom that happens:

- just acceptance and understanding, and if not that
- acceptance and understanding of their THEIR OWN priority oe values list which means something unique you can wonder at like looking at the sky or another animal... since they are not you (no two people are the same / many combinations of things).

This is not to over romanticize but people are quite well wonderful beings / special !

So not just reading a book by it's cover or the first thing you see about them (even if it's good/perfect) but going the distance more.
You can also do the process by picking people randomly or from a pool of safe people and let time fill in the fragments from a random start since all can be quite random and all needs finding out more about without being too fast and furious about it and more casual regular tourist perhaps).

At the end with more pieces to the person you re-evaluate their priorities, which order they do things, real examples, hanging out together feeling and rate them accordingly for their strength, weaknesses AND unseen things like learnability, logic, imagination, joyfulness... which can all act as multipliers and turn things better or help in some way (like not blaming you but just the way that it is)...
hopefully most of it from negative to positive or staynig neutral too but still accepting negatives for a while between friends is actually the real normal and part of the human cycle we shouldn't be doing less of but encouraging a bit more of both (if you agree people are bit more shy or feel burnt already or listen to what their parents said).

Of that human being you can see more and more, and even compare them to yourself a bit more neutrally about what they do (it's not the first way but friends generally like the other or like the yin yang or it's something they already don't have and even compliment themselves with you the hang and learn and have fun from... if not just be there silent!).

What you prioritise in yourself (your own internal ordered list) can be matched to theirs... what their quest is or aiming for... without using them for your own means...
Just if what they say is fairly true to themself or others... and how they go about it... how often do they listen... are they forceful... do you want more direction from them?

And in the end if you're not afraid or threatened OR can manage it well the overall aim of education / self-learning and all that shines through as the objective itself and everything that happens can just be good material for the processing in between (pollination somewhat like planting two peppers together always to increase chances of receiving more pollen (or understanding and experience) together rather than alone much more isolated / less chances in understanding)

My aim is to be friends with everyone or all on the journey while managing what that means too to others and pressing it if really they say it's not (yet) for them :) as somewhat there is no escape from being human so might as well enjoy it / be ok with others!

Planet + more friendly people = Bit Better Planet.

Something like that.. I want for your happiness while not being too pushy about it and I think that works for everyone else :)

@bhaugen Edited just means clipped in this context / sometimes with original audio parts time-shifted a touch to match images or duration time...

#Video #Edit - #Chess related #Music #Video

Didn't like the whole video - it seems too bought and paid for as them but editing it and with lyrics yes I'm more into it...

Surprising when you edit you see more 'into it' or at least clip the best bits for yourself and others...
enjoy, #FreeSchool

Full version (not that specil):
Alter Bridge - Pawns & Kings (Official Video)
https://invidious.sethforprivacy.com/watch?v=aTqN0nh7Avk

or

https://redirect.invidious.io/watch?v=aTqN0nh7Avk

I have to admit something about the text filter makes people dim.. (or maybe receiving the signal as dim) without fault of anyone... but those that try do things only in text format.

Even with a good responsive person (no problems and we got there happily) just so many descriptions of the same thing... so many messages.. like just for what's on the screen...

So not for all use cases, it would be my ideal to request chat and that's it! Kinda chatroulette style if the other person gets the ok

Because it must be life or kids breaking people's attention that snaps them out of what they are doing and have to read and re-read something. So something is up with this text or maybe intelligence is lowering?

Stuff is not right here.
Even leaving alone any emotional / philosophical / political discussion you have peopel SMSing and getting the wrong idea, getting all emotional... probably to save call costs ... which probably ends up as wasted time too... as well as all of us training up with this life / people thing.

I think people don't even see text-only as a problem since text feels so good 'efficient' but only for sending or typing or concise-looking stuff... not actually understanding as expression and people always.

What gets me is people don't even calculate or save in memory how many SMS or emails and then they say "I have no time". So 10 emails later... actually 30mins of talk time could have work better... and less reading, re-reading etc multiple meanings permeated, guess-work etc...

It takes us a while to get to such a simple things... kinda of like using one hand instead of two, because our voice I think is also missing
And of course we also don't want to do the people thing. We're scared of division or scared or ourselves flipping out at someone.

To be fair only recently could we connect so fast and free audible services (skype being the major thing before) and now jitsi meet.jit.si/anychatname

Sorry BigBlueButton (no instant chat space to demo even on their website) and accordingly needs more server requirements (a cut down version would be good)

https://bigbluebutton.org/

meet.jit.si/anychatname

If I'm wrong let me know.
- about the text rant
- about Jitsi Meet vs. BBB

#Mastodon #Questions
How to get to see a user's local timeline of posts (on their server) just from following seeing user's post somewhere?
So right now on Qoto you see which server but click on it (under their name) and it goes to their profile not the server name...

The criteria is mouse clicks only, no typing, how to get to someone's server timeline of posts after seeing a someone post somewhere (like a reply or direct message)...

So if you're not on Qoto... how would you get to see the local timeline of post here? Can you do it just by mouse clicks?

#InstanceTicker might help here for qoto users....
@weepjp can you link server name (where it says qoto.org under my username with colour background) to go to public timeline instead of my username profile?
Anyway my profile is clickable using my name so this would be cool to click my name or my server (because we are 'the best'...
at making accessible things!)

I know some servers don't have public timeline (ned for being logged in) which is ok... but our is public
https://qoto.org/public

but some need to you login first or be logging in from that server such as mstdn.social:

https://mstdn.social/web/timelines/public/domain/mstdn.social

Overall I'd LOVE to see the post on other servers 1 or two clicks from any users...

ANY IDEAS / ANSWERS?
I asked @feditips and we didn't quite get there, so anything appreciated.

Looking for visuals icon or image to represent a 'Shit Poster'

(also in a respectful way simple pic, not just negative connotation). So could be around the fun they have or habits... thanks)

Sex is short-lived unless the other parts of relationship is as good or interesting...

...otherwise you can end up doing all this other stuff on top (marriage, living together) and realise it's just to get sex (mostly) and then realise everything else is poor / unrewarding and not really as adventurous.

If you use money, you should know it's being devalued.

Anything you do with money contaminates and also devalued what you are doing... one of the major tricks about money to get out of.

Of course it does take a while to let that sink in... and then at least *aim* for another way. This current way is 100% a fail. Aim for something else... investing in people in better ways than trusting bankers and it's increasing debt / devaluing design...

The "you do you" comment... can anyone explain / break it down what it means / could mean?

There is an example of it here:
https://social.finkhaeuser.de/@jens/108701481293739313

There is also another person using it which usually is when someone else doesn't agree with them and seems totally immoral when replying. So I guess it's like something totally not accepted or obviously not the way so people say "you do you" as a disconnect / last word.

I have attached "bad work" to some people in the social sense that they can't manage to talk to people other than short sentences... not sure if I should mention names but I might start my own shit-list of people even though I like the work of them they still come out with that and don't really talk well about point and that seems off or bad work actually.

"you do you"... err ok!

Emotional feelings often take priority over from the sense of logic... because logic needs more time to fit into brain, emotions are more of an immediate and sharp feeling)...

So emotions need time to settle sometimes to let logic fall into place for that other person after a bit of an intro and even some correction what the other person thinks it is incorrectly.

It's hard but knowing the emotion cycle of an individual / your partner can help practise this cycle (not always trying to improve it at the same time).

Basic rejection of a persons idea or suggestion (like "no thanks" to free beer) can result in unintended feelings for that person (person feels bad you said no) even if someone really doesn't drink beer!

Initially the feelings from the suggester to that rejection / no can be like they need 'retaliation' because of the feeling 'caused by that person' (which is really just the way the person offered and can't handle rejection).

Also for some new information or personal stance about the world that can also changes your emotions...

Often not intended but also perhaps perfectionism is also to blame 'how to do it right' or 'how the world is' even though there is much more than 1 ways to do anything for it to still be 'good' or 'good enough'...

and THE WORLD IS CHANGING or changed already and people didn't realise...

If people realise the hard reality or realisation what you said.... (or more accurately what also wasn't said in my childhood, society / previous years alive etc) then we all have to learn to re-learn / bite the bullet or breath in / out and say ok maybe this is the way it really is or just how this person came to see it!

Having some suggestions is ok but still allowing others a "neutral position" already (neither yes or no, just being themself) is best I feel and in my experience... and letting the other make there own mind is good without pressuring them to boiling point.

2 people are always different so being not pushed by your suggestion is actually helpful.
[The exception is perhaps if you can't say yes as some cultures can't or have societal training / etiquettes!]

Often a suggestion or offer to do something is a measure of self-worth or wanting to do good by that person so that person can be disappointed or 'denied' if they can't help someone else (like if I'm good with computers and someone says they have a problem... but on my offering they say they want to sort it out on their own).

Also from feeling of guilt people can suggest things to try and pay you back or pay tribute to you / praise you which can incorrectly 'make' someone else feel bad also!!... hidden stuff

i.e. help / praise / tribute is not always wanted or needed - but there could be a way need to find something else or learn how to relax and not pressure people for free beer or your own self-esteem boosted when giving to others!

Giving is good don't get me wrong but conditionally or just by shouting your own name saying "I did this..." is not the way either.

Sure a few times ask but don't be pissed - Also get the hint to avoid the "no fuck off already!" reaction... and for those that can't say no they understand some people will try to get reasons why and that is also your opportunity to manage that in practising or confirming why they wanted to help or conditions and effect of such action later ("do I need to pay you back for that?").

Any person that basically can't do things another way is giving you an ultimatum or perhaps feels they are in an ultimatum of there own!

Talking about it more is good to get the story right / better understanding.