Friendship Paradox & 'Need to get to know you first' (Self-security?)
Friendship Paradox & 'Need to get to know you first'
TLDR If your too wary or thinking about stranger danger you might not get anywhere with anyone! (Or it's not worth the anxiety doubt etc.. people ARE just strange / different)
Many have said the Paradox to me
● "but I don't know you" and
● "maybe when we're friends we can talk more"
What a paradox...
□ No chat because we're not friends
□ And can't be much friends without chat
Now I understand a few expected reasons like
● Internet paranoia and
● I'm not single or looking for a date
But the whole idea for friendship is
● towards solving the world from being unfriendly
● checking out people instead of blocking them (even to stop people acting 'weird' from being blocked).
Worst is perhaps 'Need to get to know you first' and stay not talking about yours or my topic (not much relativity arises)
My Version is that friendship we should
● expect EVERYONE to be weird (at least at first and while you get to know them THAT IS THE PROCESS!! And weird is often better in some characteristical way)
● all friends hurt feelings of other friends so pardon any stranger also!... its part of growing or getting used to styles, many of which can match your style if mind is a open a little rather than battling yourself or others to keep them so distanced.
● honesty is also good to practise although again hurts with defensive feelings or rejection of thoughts often offends...
...still if you don't try be friendly or friends, what can you expect from others?
Hope that shows you how simple or hard people can make it for me and others.
♡ <---- not sex either, love for life etc
TLDR If your too wary or thinking about stranger danger you might not get anywhere with anyone! (Or it's not worth the anxiety doubt etc.. people ARE just strange / different)
People are born as debt... UNLESS you use each other without banks more often....
Shortest version
● People are born debt.
Or
● People are born as debt hosts.. Unless more people use each other without banks more often.
● Else debt gets worse as debt increases fastest and more than anything more human or caring.
UNLESS you AND I work together more often (or you and some others)...... without banks.... It gets worse.
Computers are faster than humans... CHECKMATE!!....
Computers are faster than humans... CHECKMATE!!....
*NOT* A GOOD THING THAT!... especially when
● USED BY UNETHICAL/IGNORANT BEINGS
and
● LEADERS OF INDUSTRY WHO DON'T CARE OR JUST WANT MONEY EXTRACTION.
On top of this computers don't do empathy etc... so you get less empathy faster and vicious loops as time is going by.
Morality etc is for humans to practice anyway not computers.
Technology almost totally skips / doesn't have protocols for these emotions or in-person personal sharing. Again losing this part in any 'time saved' way is iverall loss of human practice and loss of time.
If you think you can cheat tyrannic computer systems and bad games and win with fast computers and 20% ethics think again.
WANT YOUR OWN PROOF?
For proof just play any chess game AND WATCH WHO WINS. And then try debate any ethics (with the machine!!).
Computer wins without caring unless on the idiot setting which even still beats people who never learned what computing business is about or what it b€cam£.
COMPUTERS help set games and distanced practices which PREDICT ALL YOUR POSSIBLE MOVES. Not good.
SUMMARY
This post is to show it's about PEOPLE NOT COMPUTERS.... similar to slogans:
"PEOPLE NOT PROFIT"
These signs are similar in meaning when computers are set to do profit transactions more often than humans being human so it's not helping overall (which is what your time should really be about unless you think computers should run the world by the industry that continues to make/abuse them).
The whole thing about CHESS is to show how stupid games ( damage orientated games ) can be used to make people play against each other (which is called "business" in real life to do the same) and governments and banks win all the meanwhile like a monopoly game each time you go around the board of "real life".
Which wins more often and is worthy of more practice?
Computing or People ?
@saint11 Really well done / rewarding to read.
Money & Economics - Learn via List of my top links...
Money & Macro Economics - my top list:
( for listening mode add to URL: &listen=True )
All these below are worth listening / my recommended and helps catch the complicated parts of money with macro zoom view which I didn't find spoken so clearly in a lot of other media.
Jim Rickards with Adam
https://inv.riverside.rocks/watch?v=NxmTCfJi59c&listen=false
Jim Rickards with host
https://invidious.flokinet.to/watch?v=A18Q-dJAa9A&listen=false
Stuck In Hell: Fed Creating a Cycle of Crisis, then 'Rescues' Us
https://invidious.dhusch.de/watch?v=TNvzQa7b-KU
Jim Rickards Luquidity Crisis & Recession + Unrest - Worse than 2008?
https://invidious.dhusch.de/watch?v=JOLnmrM_EPk&listen=false
Jim Grant - Stagflation & Bear Markets To Define 2023
https://invidious.dhusch.de/watch?v=7aNsPpN1dt4&listen=false
Jim Grant - Be Bearish Stocks But Time for Bullish Bonds?
https://invidious.dhusch.de/watch?v=ERJR2PmQNgI&listen=false
Death by inflation
https://invidious.dhusch.de/watch?v=csf4fdV-EOQ&listen=false
Nomi Prins - Beating Wall Street at Its Own Game
https://invidious.dhusch.de/search?q=Nomi+Prins
How to survive & THRIVE in the upcoming financial crisis
( we will lose everything pic )
https://invidious.dhusch.de/watch?v=UacgowUVr2E&listen=false
Inflation's Damage
https://invidious.dhusch.de/watch?v=OfNAuyz9YG4&listen=false
Market disruption and economic uncertainty Luke Gromen
https://vid.puffyan.us/watch?v=gTWw7Z5XL6Q
#OnThisDay, 16 Jan 1970, Dilma Rousseff, a member of the Brazillian guerrilla movement against the military government, is arrested. She was labelled the “Joan of Arc” of the movement.
In 2011 she became the first woman to be president of Brazil.
@goto80 Hi, interested. What can I do? Do you have a list?
●happy to make a podcast conversation about it, both to explore what it is and advertise it a bit (an edited down best-of version audio of conversation) or looking at your site(s), pictures etc...
Jean-Michel Jarre's Oxygene 4 re-created in 19 kilobytes of Javascript, including a custom softsynth. https://dittytoy.net/ditty/24373308b4
Lol @ "The song that inspired every electronic musician."
@freemo Not sure of the question since I'm on this server.
I know the https://mastodon.green/ person had same problems with your account quite recently so that's the same case it seems with the account saying same for me may - so it seems different users to our server can have exactly same looking message (not like anything else was said or screen was different, only "Account suspended" ) ...
Other servers I don't know and hesitate to ask as the one I know since they are a new user and very busy so already I know how frustrating it can be as new user and wouldn't pushing them to troubleshoot for us - but for that server I assume Trammel @th will know best and be best AND can change settings to test it with you since your both of similar status on servers.
"ACCOUNT SUSPENDED" MASTODON msg
@freemo
"ACCOUNT SUSPENDED" MASTODON msg
Here is screenshot if it helps....
From user on 2 servers and 1st is owner if you want to try contact, is:
+ found by chance another user that tried to get in contact with you who said the same msg on their side to me using email to reach me...
wow what a misleading thing for them "Account suspended" also...
At least the error message could be better even if it's not precise (like mentioning what it could be/what to try)
I assume I won't get msg from blocked instance and already 2 users said they can't see my reply to their post or DM
Audio version of YouTube videos by adding &listen=true
Listen to videos by adding &listen=true
Example below also works using Invidious; a privacy filter for YouTube.
https://invidious.dhusch.de/watch?v=UacgowUVr2E&listen=true
(Video About Macro Economics which helps to listen to audio many times to 'get it' / get the concepts)
Audio has less heavier bandwidth.
Just add: &listen=true
Banks aren't the only arseholes that need to clean their methods and mentality...
Banks aren't the only arseholes that need to clean their methods and mentality...
As example: The habit of NOT buying toilet paper to prevent capitalism crushing the earth to get it to you is very tangible savings (multiple meaning if "saving")
SOLUTION IF YOU'RE WILLING...
A wet tshirt can be washed for wiping your bum (and not capitalism and fossil fuel transport wiping your bum).
These smaller but massive hypocrisies bug me and enslave the planet so I'll end that by saying the banks aren't the only arseholes that need to fix basic mentality.
"Cheap and easy to get" things cost us and planet in many other ways much more and disposing of them costly in material and transport of items.
It's about changing / opening our minds...
I give people time and I thnk that's the difference to others online who really don't have or give time and give up on people really easy... (don't mean to be competitive, no put-downs, just I more dedicate time to others and weave us together).
So you don't even have to read any of this because EVERYTHING needs time + communication and without that a lot is broken and even less human even if it's for good...
Just follow and put notifications on to TEST MY FEED.... the rest below is just over-info for most poeple.
Open Learning School or Freedom University...
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A lot you might be at length and depth, but if you're easy about it, you can take the best and even take me along to understand life with others!
To learn and do everything practically! (this is a practical living (and gets stuff done as much as we can).
Fan of Fediverse!
Quick Look - peace-loving work / services:
█ Mini-Podcast (few mins each, examples below)
█ Picture remixes / video remixes
█ Lessons without being too 'teacher' about it. Teacher has teeth for eliminating doubt.
█ Food for thought as gentle soul also.
█ Unique ideas - often impossible for professionals (they are burdened by financial repsonsibility and therefore associational risk in saying things). I'm more diverse and occasionally direct (with respect, though I don't shy away from reminding people).
█ Not too embarrassing to say "I don't know" but can still chase things.
█ More responsive than casual users usually because people think having 'job' is enough in life. I say it's not! And even faimily is of no use if it's only getting worse (in everything!).
Podcast Examples:
1. Gary Ackerman's thoughts on AI
https://qoto.org/@freeschool/111867522723922385
2. The Little Prince book
https://qoto.org/@freeschool/111845561003150354
3. Fantasy genre from a fan's perspective
https://qoto.org/@freeschool/111845709367492677
I help people create audio / edit educational audio / podcast / music / visual short videos / transcript text
+ I like to add a bit humour while being quite strict in my own politics (opinions) but open / inviting for others to tell me what I should do if they can explain more than just a short comment (I don't mind it's healthy for me at least if you have logic and can stand yourself explaining).
FreeSchool is about Learning towards Freedom (which is about Uniting everyone slowly, even "1 by 1"... Easy with The Fediverse!
Not virtue signalling here only, but practise of EVERYTHING as we go. Judged by getting in contact (many have) and having courage to communicate (or seeking it from others is ok, EVERYONE needs a bit of courage or hand-holding to make big personal changes). Who else is there for example if family doesn't understand?
Learning and watching can be good and staying out of people's way, BUT better is doing something every day and helping each other with some tough decisions / lessons... and then being bold enough to do them. 1... 2... 3 that is all that's needed.
Let my posts do most of the talking.
Put me on notification (click bell that appears after follow ia accepted) and if it's not interesting switch off after and tick me off the list of potential people to follow daily!
Media version of my posts here... open link for later... good for visual scrolling version and judge me on that I don't mind...
https://qoto.org/@freeschool/media
I'm usually impressed with my media gallery as I work on posts a lot usually or hit the "Aha!" moments and capture it (other people may forget it for years, not me!).
Freedom is about *making it work together* better like using #Mastodon on the #Fediverse daily for better platforms with more #bestpractices and 'best' people to help us which I kind of collect here and
when it's #1 comment!
I am measurably better because I reply and stick to everything to the end(!)
No cancelling friendship suddenly without saying why or being moody!
Freedom is to Learn, Respect and Love eventually and ️to Unite!
Practically it's also like Tetris - add yourself to the puzzle and watch it all happen...
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talk more on Mastodon and the Fediverse and puzzle it all out using better ways to less use the other bad commercial / extractive people...
L£$$ of the less caring people like the ggl's / ytb / gmail / mainstream communication points etc who are offering lots of space 'free' and it's not free of peace there.
We GIVE to real people (TIME NOT JUST MONEY).
There's no buy-in solution - we have to make it with selotape or whatever we have - it's not shameful to bring whatever you have.
FreeSchool is terminology put together from many good things from past (coined in 1950's/60's. I / we become it eventually through being.
It's a movement for Freedom via Learning it all (learning self included and less active stuff) and doing the learning *together* --> https://wikipedia.org/wiki/Freeschool.
I encourage you warmly to participate with me as a I have time and then spiral out naturally to others (we are part of humanity and so naturally a sort of evangelism or ecological pyramid of life as we choose to spread lesser suffering while accepting consuming is part of it).
Less-commercial in orientation (in everything) and happy to think / work for free.
Naturally you will hesitate if someone is sure of themself or ok standing on shoulders what we copy do the best from humbly but not too sterile either.
Based on just emotions ruins almost everything, which seems very common - very ungraceful - so don't disconnect... do it gracefully at least!
A "school" of thought is here you can interact / ask and make best together as free/low cost as possible.
Even a bad answer you can take best from (of course I won't know all your situation when I suggest something but I don't need to answer 100% - you also need to help me!).
Leave perfectionism, we are all imperfect humans! Let's do it... Choose something ANYTHING and keep the thoughts rolling together...!
All content under the Creative Commons license CC-BY-SA-NC. https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nc-sa/4.0/?ref=chooser-v1 Thereby, ideally, only using tools and resources that are #FLOSS #OpenSource. #nobot