Relationships are like puzzle pieces, It's unavoidable to go through feelings...
Relationships are like puzzle pieces, It's unavoidable to go through feelings so YOU MUST Go THROUGH them if your really into any relationship! (It's hard to hear 'you must', I don't like it but I mean more that left or right all ways go the same, feeling, experience, adjustment, comms, everything!)
Don't bee too defensive - time also passes not too great that!
We just have to try some pieces together, some hit and miss but do continue if you believe in yourself ! (you find more when you're ok with yourself and not fighting or comparing yourself with others)
Some pieces of the puzzle will match some not, but it's the ambience and civility I think while playing together that makes the pieces more possible - no assuming first time you're going to hit it off... and smiling when it's difficult and thinking about it.
According to me, if you find someone exactly like you then also expect some feelings of challenge like putting two magnets of the same polarity... or misunderstanding or fireworks, and then a bit more time you realise wow actually there are quite unique!
It's uncomfortable for some people who can't make a REAL relationship semi-deep so I wrote this as it's just a smile and get along kinda thing and letting everything grow.
It's just like not being too precious also... and living it by allowing others and everyone a bit of real talk :)
since posting this i have learned that childrens' neurochemistry differs so drastically from adults that if measured on that basis alone, they would qualify as a separate species. among other things, the mechanism in adults that serves to conserve energy does not exist in children which is why they run at 100% speed all day until they collapse from exhaustion and then do it again the next day
Privacy-Focused Social Media BRAX.ME + Video of guy defending own product / comparing others....
So 2 main things of interest here about privacy / phones mostly:
1/ This guy represents his own product and compares a few privacy types things (he's pretty direct about the opposition!)
and answers
-- specific AND general questions about HIS product AND others... mobile or BIG TECH or OTHER smaller phone products
-- PRIVACY-BASED STUFF, XMPP / Jitsi mentioned, VPN, Brax Router
https://yewtu.be/watch?v=4ZFqrCD6SBk
( skip intro to 4.30 as just music / time-killing)... then it's riffing 30mins about privacy (it's ok) and then answers from general crowd some useful crowd questions.
2/ Website https://brax.me/
Gives a good run-down at least as ideals for mobile app (but seems it's the real thing!) for privacy-conscious social media
" No Identity. Encrypted. Open Source. "
So basically bout privacy and some answers around sticking to the same privacy principles:
COMMENTS?
Love to hear your comments (it seemed for me refreshing
--someone being so direct about opposition
--being technical and representing himself while defending privacy
--says "but you trust those other guys and not me as I'm right here talking to you and answering at least! (paraphrase)
Less Long-Form Communication = Less Community
Community = Communication
(The healthy type of comms ideally - short version)
JUST text and pictures =
Incomplete Community
The idea is to say we can simulate or present what looks like community or do 3/4 of community but essentially talking directly to each other is what I consider most complete and most human. This expresses and goes through all the motions as the more realer equivalent (human voice minimally directly or via voice replies) like in-person or something expressive more than text (not everyone can do text well y'know!)
TEXT AND PICS ARE NOT ENOUGH FOR COMMUNITY OR IS INCOMPLETE IN MANY ways...
(IN MY way of MEANING OR AS FOR CHANGE AS A COMMUNITY DOING THE HUMAN WAY ITSELF.... ETC)
Less Long-Form Communication = Less Community
What they think counts... [ paraphrased version and actual quotes by prisoner Jauhen Rubashka ]...
From This Source: Jauhen Rubashka’s last word in court
https://abc-belarus.org/?p=14944&lang=en
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INTRODUCTION - I've cut and re-arranged the above slightly to reflect the point I'd like to make which in summary is:
- law is basically whatever they think words mean to them (such as Anarchism),
- Law is for them to use indiscriminately with people of ignorance, making law itslf a trap for control in own realm
- Law is just to steer people into the same 'it looks fair' but is the same casino (money) or control (suppression) in getting the outcome they want with variable interpretation and avenues they can choose to put more weight on as 'judge' ]
I don't think my selection of the text changes or messes with the source's sentiments too much as they don't seem too unclear but again reading the original first will help to ensure it's not wrong by the source.
I'm reproducing it but basically the last sentence in the paragraph above say the main point if you're not interested from hearing from the prisoner )
[Edits and changes are cuts in sentences, making shorter, making lines between a sentence and indicating any cut with double ellipses ... ... ]
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START OF RE-ARRANGED VERSION
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" This case is about the “stylized “A”s in a circle on our laptops, ... ....even a red and black bag of earth. It is a matter of thought-crime, in particular, of anarchism. "
... ...
" What does the public prosecutor mean by it? The overthrow of the state system, inciting social hatred, riots, extremist destructive activity.
What do I mean by it? Solidarity and mutual aid, personal and collective freedom and responsibility, rejection of oppression in its many forms.
As an anarchist, for 10 years
I’ve been cooking for the homeless and poor people on the streets of Minsk, which the “welfare state” does not care about ... ...
I have been involved in various educational, social and environmental projects.
I contributed to the preservation of the Kotovka Square in Selkhozposelok.
I am ready to simply help a person in any way I can. "
... ...
" “Pramen” is an anarchist media resource, that is, the media,
and the statement of the state prosecutor that this resource writes only about its participants would mean that if Belarus Today writes about the harvest, then all collective farmers are related to the editorial office of the newspaper. "
... ...
" My anarchism is idealistic, pompous, radical, but creative, not destructive. "
" As a reminder that the law is for everyone, I would like to quote from the protocol of the decision of the tribunal over the Nazi judges.
“The defendants and their colleagues distorted, reversed, and in the end achieved the complete destruction of justice and law in Germany. They made the judiciary an integral part of the dictatorship. They removed any semblance of judicial independence. They threatened those who got into the courts, intimidated them, deprived them of their fundamental rights.
The “trials” they carried out were horrible farces, with rudimentary remnants of legal procedure that were nothing but a mockery of the unfortunate victims!”
" We determine our lives by our own personal and collective choices. "
Teaching people using pictures + practical code (an example website)....
This helps people see and play to get the message, that's why I think it's different.
Changing people's perspective is limited if it's always done in the same way (text / no human contact). Bashing people / having reactions / repeating in the same way has it's limits I hope you agree)
So this is a site where you can read but then play with the tech which changes the pictures to make your own customised picture and even 'story' picture to send to others. (Something more personal that you remixed yourself is nice). Could be for a meme but already it has the best phrases included below:
"my other computer is your...
laptop, tablet, PSP games device, mobile, server, car, cloud, toaster, wireless router, smart TV, fridge, camera, heart monitor, baby monitor, watch... etc etc"
----^ quite a good list / worth saving since I've written it down lol!
Check it out here:
1. https://myothercomputer.com
2. same but alternative layout (which I prefer)
https://myothercomputer.com/cc-by.html#faqInfo
Website Blocking example vs. Tiny Notice message...
LEFT SIDE = ULTIMATUM
(RESULT: STOPS BROWSING)
RIGHT SIDE = NOTICE TO USER (RESULT: ALLOWS BROWSING WITH NOTICE)....
With older browsers or forks this blocking is becoming popular encouraging people to upgrade when not really needed at all / can still run the site or just needs warming it's 99% ok just not 100% which many sites are (just pictures and text, or at worst some pics or something missing)
While it does help me browse less sites (I just leave or send them this screenshot) I would prefer just a notice in my browser (the right side) AND NOT A BLOCK PAGE!
Self-sufficiency in food... if the cultivator could be free of the three “vultures”; the state, the landowner, and the banker...
Quoted from https://theecologist.org/2021/dec/24/kropotkins-ecology
Also Wikipedia history is interesting: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Peter_Kropotkin
" Self-sufficiency in food could be achieved, he felt, without recourse to industrial farming (under capitalism), if the cultivator could be free of the three “vultures” (as Kropotkin described then) – the state, the landowner, and the banker. Kropotkin thus opposed both the state collectivization of agriculture and capitalist farming. "
" Mutual aid (or anarchy) was expressed, Kropotkin argued, in worker’s associations, trade unions, family life, religious charities, various clubs and cultural societies, as well as many other forms of voluntary associations. Mutual Aid, Kropotkin stressed, was an important factor in evolution and in human social life. "
My favorite Mastodon 3.5.0+ feature is that if you have full text search on your server, you can search for
"from:username@anyserver.whatever foobar"
And it will filter search results for just posts made by username@anyserver.whatever. This is a further refinement to the existing search, so the limitation of "posts that either were made by you or you have favorited, bookmarked, or are replies to you" still applies. It's SO MUCH EASIER to search through my old posts now.
Is you want to connect to a remote file system with #ssh, you can use #sshfs. You can mount a remote drive on your device and use it like a local drive.
For more details: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/SSHFS
#server #linux
More active you are the more you step on toes, but if you can absorb that and even fix things to help it on it's way then you have progress.
-Worst case is bad dancers with bad teachers,
-Best case is a hive full of activity and repairing / feeding cells + getting the honey (progressing activity regardless of ability and increasing of human intelligence within a hive,)
Having tech orientated things are good but exclusive to the point where *perhaps* it's only tech people... and that's a problem that needs solving in itself... And abot different motivations or priorities in people to still be included in your project... to do satellite things that make the orbiting pull for others to join in or get interested...
MAIN POINT
Using all of them (people) regardless of skill perhaps. They can do satellite things that make the orbiting pull for others...
MORE AROUND THE TITLE AND PARAGRAPH ABOVE...
I MIXED TWO THINGS IN SUMMARY:
-almost exclusive / excluding tech-only things being an issue and limitation itself
-different motivation or priorities in people... (using all of the different kinds regardless of skill perhaps or just not expect it to be #1 all the time)
The thought actually started about people and keeping a circle of individualism and their own order or motivation or priority (probably 2 different things but can be the same) and including them as much as possible whichever way we do things as a project or whatever generally....
Using all of them (people) regardless of skill perhaps. They can do satellite things that make the orbiting pull for others...
PRIORITY LIST / FAVOURITE THINGS:
Everyone probably has something they 'know' they are right in.. we just have to help each one of us understand it better AND get to work amongst that (basically it's not important if it's 4th or 5th important on their personality list but using all motivation is priority instead of many not understanding and not being able to accept others unless it's #1 on their list... #2 to #10 are all doable but it seems a bit exclusive now, also reflected in the phrase "what's you job" we love to do many things, and jobs are arguable what people are not paid to love or paid because they have to be and are strange-held less-than-moral money as a currency itself / banks etc)
BACK TO PRIORITY OR PERSON NATURE OR SOMETHING....
I personality see it like a list each person has, where someone puts a priority of something more than the other thing, more or less than another person BUT the point is not to as priority but accept all are individual and instead find a place for them.
I think it's problematic to avoiding accepting someone is individual and not asking them what they want and even though power-dynamics don't allow it, still in a community we can rope more people by asking and finding something to do.
SUMMARY:
Having tech orientated things are good but exclusive to the point where perhaps it's only tech people and so no wonder others are not involved. A tough one.
Using all of them (people) regardless of skill perhaps. They can do satellite things that make the orbiting pull for others...
If a mass of people believed in something that is imperfect is that bad... what level of imperfect do you wait for?...
If a mass of people believed in something that is imperfect and was hitting hard (despite the imperfection), what is the level of imperfection or understanding before you (individually) would accept it and dive in much more (or just not hate others for it)...
(my main direction here is people are aiming for perfection, and while it's probably best to align things or increment with highest % first... saying something like Bitcoin is irrelevant (not meaning to trigger you on Bitcoin the word) but anything that has achieved making Banks much relevant (for example in 4days on Oct 2021 Bitcoin transacted 120Billion in under a week (about 4 days) (I don't mean other shitcoins or crytography, not those).... so if that is a bar and it wasn't 'evil' transactions doesn't that say something like "it's working to burn the banks by avoiding FEES, %, State control, Red-tape, 'Verification', Shut-down (swallowing accounts of problematic people) etc etc etc)
Forget the word bitcoin but if anything does that, when are we ready (or what %) before you step in more / read up on it?
Or do you just keep going with the banks which is ultimately the source of all almost all our problems. <----- I shit you not or at least 2nd / 3rd / 4th fuelling anything as the main problem.
Mixed feelings but I'm asking basically about achieving perfection which is perhaps lesser possible and only waiting (though I'm not sure, could waiting win it for us or not just regrow another bank when one falls?).
The necessity in life's design to opt-out of the massive infrastructure and not be at their whim (as an individual or local gov). To have our own mini-choices (NOT BE DE-PERSONALISED).
Notes from a video + weaving best bits together a bit so it's mixed but hopefully shows some good notes (together or as paragraphs)...
It's about the necessity to opt-out of the massive infrastructure or have nice choices and not be at corporations total whim (as an individual or local gov itself).
To have our own choice and NOT BE DEPERSONALISED) is to be more sovereign.
Slight tangent but similar
When your Operating System governs your locality's decision-making... then this is becoming more powerful than your Government or everyone following their ways reflect their ineffectiveness in this (like just having always-online operating systems) just because it's easier (funded) or less technical (easy install)
Linux (LinuxMint / Debian) install still needs tech-literate people though it seems a good choice.
The above does seem hard if you're trying to manage masses of people and somewhat need to standardise / shepherd... but I guess the line of ignorance is just everyone following nobody or one big corporation as the shepherd itself (rather than individuality or intelligence) so corps are clearer and better funded.... which is arguably what government is supposed to be like Microsoft represented back in the day paving the way for word processing and computer operating systems for the layman / average person... (even if questionably so if you consider Linux still needs tech-level help to setup or not get stuck whereas windows gets you in point and click style.... I could be wrong on this!)
SUMMARY:
The above paragraphs help us see why people go for big corps (as a gov trying to standardise / depersonalise everything or gov just going with big corps)
I skimmed of this from a video so it's mixed but hopefully shows some good notes (together or as paragraphs)
Linux Mint should ditch Ubuntu and here's why (a Chris Were talk)
https://tilvids.com/videos/watch/2f27e4ad-f481-467d-9984-ab61445eed1f
It's about changing / opening our minds...
I give people time and I thnk that's the difference to others online who really don't have or give time and give up on people really easy... (don't mean to be competitive, no put-downs, just I more dedicate time to others and weave us together).
So you don't even have to read any of this because EVERYTHING needs time + communication and without that a lot is broken and even less human even if it's for good...
Just follow and put notifications on to TEST MY FEED.... the rest below is just over-info for most poeple.
Open Learning School or Freedom University...
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A lot you might be at length and depth, but if you're easy about it, you can take the best and even take me along to understand life with others!
To learn and do everything practically! (this is a practical living (and gets stuff done as much as we can).
Fan of Fediverse!
Quick Look - peace-loving work / services:
█ Mini-Podcast (few mins each, examples below)
█ Picture remixes / video remixes
█ Lessons without being too 'teacher' about it. Teacher has teeth for eliminating doubt.
█ Food for thought as gentle soul also.
█ Unique ideas - often impossible for professionals (they are burdened by financial repsonsibility and therefore associational risk in saying things). I'm more diverse and occasionally direct (with respect, though I don't shy away from reminding people).
█ Not too embarrassing to say "I don't know" but can still chase things.
█ More responsive than casual users usually because people think having 'job' is enough in life. I say it's not! And even faimily is of no use if it's only getting worse (in everything!).
Podcast Examples:
1. Gary Ackerman's thoughts on AI
https://qoto.org/@freeschool/111867522723922385
2. The Little Prince book
https://qoto.org/@freeschool/111845561003150354
3. Fantasy genre from a fan's perspective
https://qoto.org/@freeschool/111845709367492677
I help people create audio / edit educational audio / podcast / music / visual short videos / transcript text
+ I like to add a bit humour while being quite strict in my own politics (opinions) but open / inviting for others to tell me what I should do if they can explain more than just a short comment (I don't mind it's healthy for me at least if you have logic and can stand yourself explaining).
FreeSchool is about Learning towards Freedom (which is about Uniting everyone slowly, even "1 by 1"... Easy with The Fediverse!
Not virtue signalling here only, but practise of EVERYTHING as we go. Judged by getting in contact (many have) and having courage to communicate (or seeking it from others is ok, EVERYONE needs a bit of courage or hand-holding to make big personal changes). Who else is there for example if family doesn't understand?
Learning and watching can be good and staying out of people's way, BUT better is doing something every day and helping each other with some tough decisions / lessons... and then being bold enough to do them. 1... 2... 3 that is all that's needed.
Let my posts do most of the talking.
Put me on notification (click bell that appears after follow ia accepted) and if it's not interesting switch off after and tick me off the list of potential people to follow daily!
Media version of my posts here... open link for later... good for visual scrolling version and judge me on that I don't mind...
https://qoto.org/@freeschool/media
I'm usually impressed with my media gallery as I work on posts a lot usually or hit the "Aha!" moments and capture it (other people may forget it for years, not me!).
Freedom is about *making it work together* better like using #Mastodon on the #Fediverse daily for better platforms with more #bestpractices and 'best' people to help us which I kind of collect here and
when it's #1 comment!
I am measurably better because I reply and stick to everything to the end(!)
No cancelling friendship suddenly without saying why or being moody!
Freedom is to Learn, Respect and Love eventually and ️to Unite!
Practically it's also like Tetris - add yourself to the puzzle and watch it all happen...
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talk more on Mastodon and the Fediverse and puzzle it all out using better ways to less use the other bad commercial / extractive people...
L£$$ of the less caring people like the ggl's / ytb / gmail / mainstream communication points etc who are offering lots of space 'free' and it's not free of peace there.
We GIVE to real people (TIME NOT JUST MONEY).
There's no buy-in solution - we have to make it with selotape or whatever we have - it's not shameful to bring whatever you have.
FreeSchool is terminology put together from many good things from past (coined in 1950's/60's. I / we become it eventually through being.
It's a movement for Freedom via Learning it all (learning self included and less active stuff) and doing the learning *together* --> https://wikipedia.org/wiki/Freeschool.
I encourage you warmly to participate with me as a I have time and then spiral out naturally to others (we are part of humanity and so naturally a sort of evangelism or ecological pyramid of life as we choose to spread lesser suffering while accepting consuming is part of it).
Less-commercial in orientation (in everything) and happy to think / work for free.
Naturally you will hesitate if someone is sure of themself or ok standing on shoulders what we copy do the best from humbly but not too sterile either.
Based on just emotions ruins almost everything, which seems very common - very ungraceful - so don't disconnect... do it gracefully at least!
A "school" of thought is here you can interact / ask and make best together as free/low cost as possible.
Even a bad answer you can take best from (of course I won't know all your situation when I suggest something but I don't need to answer 100% - you also need to help me!).
Leave perfectionism, we are all imperfect humans! Let's do it... Choose something ANYTHING and keep the thoughts rolling together...!
All content under the Creative Commons license CC-BY-SA-NC. https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nc-sa/4.0/?ref=chooser-v1 Thereby, ideally, only using tools and resources that are #FLOSS #OpenSource. #nobot