@magicalmilly
Some people lack common * . It's best to try to avoid such people to their destructive behavior rather than get entangled in a deranged mess that would be harmful to yourself and push that negativity further.
* = Sense, courtesy, knowledge, etc.
@magicalmilly
Keeping my stance on the individuals well-being to myself, it's good to hear that safe moderation was exercised. Best of luck to you and your instance!