I didn't always do this.
In my early days in online forums with other coders, I was not openly female.
When it came out that I was a woman, things changed.
It was so frustrating for me.
I just wanted to code and make art and do my stuff.
But so many dudes just flipped out.
I remember this 'speaker dinner' at a conference, and this one dude had his camera on me the whole time, like I was a bird on a marsh.
Eventually I turned and said "I'm eating! Could you just stop already!"