Isi (not active anymore)
it took me such a long time to realize basic =/= boring bitch
but I don't know how to treat "basic people" instead
I feel so insanely insecure around people I perceive as "basic" cause I just don't know how to behave and I have this fear that everything I might do could be perceived as weird or awkward or anything like that
I wish I was more basic and had more social experience with "basic people" uwu
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Gamercat
@isi What do you mean by "basic people"? :ablobcatbongo:
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Isi (not active anymore)
@Gamercat non-nerds?
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@isi @Gamercat
Help the 'basic people' with your non-basic skills that's your ticket to socialization. Also I don't like the term basic people.

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Isi (not active anymore)
@mur2501 @Gamercat but they're not interested in the things I am good at or else we'd be on the same wavelength immediately
I am not interested in awkwardly trying to find a topic we're both interested in when it's too risky that in the end it's a topic I am not really passionate about
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Gamercat
@isi @mur2501 to be honest, it's generally difficult for me to communicate with people
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@Gamercat @isi
Sadly I am born in culture and society where contacts is the cash.

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@isi @Gamercat
If it wouldn't be difficult then what's the fun

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Isi (not active anymore)
@mur2501 @Gamercat I don't think anxiety is fun tho
it's okay if it's somewhat difficult cause then you can learn from it
but at my point I am currently not able to learn anything around those people cause I am too anxious around them
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Gamercat
@isi @mur2501 and my problem is that people don't like that I don't care about people and often people don't like me the way I am.
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@isi @Gamercat
Don't go into a herd of peoples.
Capture one by one.

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