My research team, not always present in the same room, are using #discord for communication. Normally I don't want *any* notifications, but here I do. If someone tries to get my attention, I don't want to miss it for an hour while working on something else.

No matter how many sluices I open, I can't get notifications to pop up consistently on either my phone or my laptop.

I'm frustrated because my software is *not annoying enough*.