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@Pat "Nothing is dirty or worn" was meant literally about clothing, household items, cars, etc. as they might be portrayed in movies or TV. This is perhaps about the American corporate aesthetic rather than a left/right distinction. You would also find it among, say, dedicated Apple customers, who would say they lean left.

On people constantly affirming each other, I was thinking about the students and faculty at the very left-wing college where I teach. They are vocally supportive of each other. For example, when I juggle (badly) outside on campus, passing students (whom I don't know) tell me, "You're doing a great job! Keep at it!"

You are right that the left (especially personalities like John Oliver or Seth Meyers) have no shortage of harsh words for the right. I think there's a difference, though, that these attacks spring not from who the targets are but from what they've done. Even the most generous person is not going to look at someone who is suppressing votes, violently trying to overthrow democracy, closing libraries, passing anti-LGBTQ+ laws, etc., and say, "you do you!"

On people getting more conservative as they get older:

nymag.com/intelligencer/2018/0

For some context, part of my inspiration for this musing was seeing this TTRPG and the thumbnail for a video of "wholesome RPGs":

snowbrightstudio.com/teatime-a

I thought, the right wouldn't find this wholesome at all! They would find something like a Hallmark movie wholesome, while a leftist might find that patriarchal and creepy.

Right's idea of wholesome:

Nobody swears or talks about sex

Race, class, and gender hierarchies are unquestioned

Nothing is dirty or worn

People are encouraged to talk about their relationship with Jesus

Law enforcement or soldiers are present and praised

Left's idea of wholesome:

Diversity is explicitly represented and welcomed

Everyone constantly affirms each other

People are encouraged to talk about their feelings

Cartoon animals (or people dressed as them) are present and cooed over

Discuss!

@peterdrake I did it manually. But the way I did it was going to my profile, click on 'Following', and then just click on the subscribe buttons of everyone in that list down there (except those on Qoto, I skip those as that's not necessary, unless Freemo manages to fuck up something royally with this codebase. :D)

@freemo

@PlaneSailingGames It seems a catch-22: you can't find people to follow because you're not seeing people.

Does anyone have advice for thickening up the federated timeline of a small instance?

Creatives (including game developers) and engineers (including software developers) agree: get a minimal rough draft out there ASAP, then iterate.

The difference is in how stable each iteration has to be. This is what makes video game development so much harder than tabletop: changing a design idea is really expensive.

@trinsec @freemo I don't suppose there's a way to do this in bulk, or at least without individually opening the profile of each of the hundreds of people I follow.

@Corfiot @stux @freemo @trinsec I got onto Mastodon significantly earlier than her. When we both left the birdsite after Elongate, she picked a different instance.

@freemo @peterdrake

Qoto has a little workaround where you can 'keep' those connections from your end. Follow _and_ subscribe to them. If there's a brief (accidental) suspension, you're still seeing them via subscription. They won't be following you anymore, of course. But at least you could see who you're not following anymore (as the follow icon won't be colored).

I'm contemplating doing that to all I follow. :P You won't be seeing stuff double or anything that I've seen.

This (accidental, temporary) blocking also hit me. It even cut me off from my spouse! (Fortunately, she's right across the breakfast table.)

Is there any way to reconnect (or even enumerate) these severed connections? Nobody on either end was notified.

@trinsec @freemo @stux

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Always fun to see the side-effect of a server-wide suspension. :P mstdn.social blocked qoto.org for a bit, so everybody from there that I was follo...

@PlaneSailingGames If my understanding is correct, a toot will only reach your instance if someone on your instance boosts it or follows the poster.

@Pat It would certainly FEEL like it mattered if the result was close.

Not ashamed, just giving people we're federated with the option to skip it when they've had too much.

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