@moonbolt I'm wondering how much you really have to worry about that. If I understand what the problem with chasers is (and I very well might not) recognizing them shouldn't usually be an issue. If you are trying for a long-term relationship you'll figure out that they see you one-dimensionally, as whatever feature of you they are chasing, rather than as a fully fledged person (or more :>) pretty quickly, no? And if it's something less serious... it might not matter as much?

But I am not the target of any chasers afaik, so I might terribly misunderstand the problem. If you are up for that I would be curious to hear what the actual shape of the issue is. If we get lucky trying to write this down might also help you figure out a solution, as most problems contain their solutions if sufficiently carefully stated. ;p