i think one of the reasons incel culture exists is that you’ve got all these autists who feel they have been lied to about some of the most important things in life.
the basic facts of how men and women will typically interact used to be laid out in the open because the expectations were explicit, a.k.a. sexism.
while feminism makes it easier for people who don’t conform, it makes life difficult for autists because no one will set realistic expectations for them.
if you’re an autistic kid and you know from an early age that you don’t fit the template, you’re probably less likely to get so bitter about it when you’re older.
@thor Yes I kinda feel now that what ever we do , say o is wrong in the eyes of someone so we are damned if we do something or say something but equally damned if we don;t.
If the media can put a picture of a muscular topless male in theie newspaper it is seen as fine, but a topless women with big breasts is seen as sexual, (as is the first picture) but no one says much about the first.
No wonder people get confused, which is why conversations like this are so important.
