funny how this guy accuses me of harassment and doesnt bother to actually give a screenshot or a post... either way I do feel deeply sadened he feels this way and apologize.
That said I went through my entire search history, literally every interaction I ever had with him. Literally all of it is overwhelming examples of me supporting him and being nice and doing everything I could to be kind and welcoming to him... not one exmaple of nastiness. Here are tthe examples:
https://qoto.org/@freemo/103611927414971482
https://qoto.org/@freemo/103875635455378427
https://qoto.org/@freemo/103540475812695955
https://qoto.org/@freemo/103755299304947793
https://qoto.org/@freemo/103895288785997479
https://qoto.org/@freemo/103687371610964915
I could literally list 100 more positive interactions of me reaching out trying to be nice and supportive and cant find a single one of me "attacking" him.
No reports, no issues of harassment, just me flooding him with niceness and one day I find us blocked.
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@freemo "Ah, Sir delights in mocking pronouns - that's it, Mister, the pup is blocking you."
Funny how something like that can bring people to just shut off all contact. I do not know if it was the reason, but it is discussed there.
Wonder what their beef with Alex Gleason is, they didn't mention.
@admitsWrongIfProven I have never mocked pronouns.. I set my pronouns as sir and mister, not as a mocker, but if others can ask for pronouns like Xe and Xer outt of respect I can ask for sir and mister out of respect.. not a mockery, a request for respect, and I generally try to respect others pronouns as well.
@freemo I did not intend to convey that you did anything wrong. It was sarcasm, as parents that are upset with their child sometimes say "mister" (as far as media tells me).
I would not dwell on it. If someone shuts you out and continues to do so if you ask why nicely, it is sometimes best to just let them be seperate.
@admitsWrongIfProven I have no issue with him going on being in his walled garden honestly... I have more issue with him spreading lies about me "harassing" him publicly without bothering to show the actual examples (which would only discredit him)
@freemo If he tells his lies in his walled garden, how does this affect you in practice? Are people messaging you from instances that do not block qoto (which would be ironic) or send you abusive emails, ...?
Honestly asking, not belittling you.
@admitsWrongIfProven because lies spread and turn people against me or the instance as they do. This has consequences for us.
@freemo Ah, so it is because you think further than the next meal, not because there is any direct abuse against you right now. Ok, that is a good thing.
@admitsWrongIfProven Yes thats correct, no direct abuse against me that I know of. Tons of people saying nasty shit, but luckily as part of their own little circle jerk without tagging me....
@admitsWrongIfProven Sadly the pattern of behavior is they dont... they dont even do due dilligance.
@freemo Only time can tell... unless we block time because of spamming. Sounds strange, but i did have a conversation with Lucifar about it: https://qoto.org/@lucifargundam/109366887045201662