I thought notifications on a few people's posts would help but it's also getting like follows where it's too many and I loose focus or pushes things down and mixes it up in Mastodon... hmm
The "let's talk now thing" is still good at sorting some out things after text gets too long or demotivating and sort out how serious people are about each bit, but preparing text is good (can be long) but reiterating in chat is satifying.
So text text...
more text,
confusion,
chat
text..
think about it
more text,
chat again
Still feels like either way has some things are missing...hmmm