🎓 Dr. Freemo 🇳🇱 @freemo@social.cleverlibre.org

@geantonicelli

Done, and thank you

@Gargron

@magicaltrout I think i responded to the wrong message with that.

@magicaltrout email the people who run the directory and express your concern: https://qoto.org/@freemo/109371530724816347

@admitsWrongIfProven Sadly the pattern of behavior is they dont... they dont even do due dilligance.

@admitsWrongIfProven Yes thats correct, no direct abuse against me that I know of. Tons of people saying nasty shit, but luckily as part of their own little circle jerk without tagging me....

@magicaltrout yes thats probably a good idea.. One thing i dont want to do is virtue signaling. I dont want to use the good things I do as a weapon to defend us as it weakens the sincerity of such actions.

@admitsWrongIfProven because lies spread and turn people against me or the instance as they do. This has consequences for us.

@admitsWrongIfProven I have no issue with him going on being in his walled garden honestly... I have more issue with him spreading lies about me "harassing" him publicly without bothering to show the actual examples (which would only discredit him)

@obi Yup, it hurts a great deal when you go tto extreme lengths to be kind, welcoming and supportive of someone, and they try to paint you as some evil person just because its the "cool" thing to do in their communitty... its disgusting really

It also does the LGBTQ community a huge disservice if all you do is attack people who try to be your ally then you just create enemies out of allies.

@admitsWrongIfProven I have never mocked pronouns.. I set my pronouns as sir and mister, not as a mocker, but if others can ask for pronouns like Xe and Xer outt of respect I can ask for sir and mister out of respect.. not a mockery, a request for respect, and I generally try to respect others pronouns as well.

@frickinLasers Could be.. No idea I was using an incorrect pronoun at any point, but if i did I would have apologized and corrected myself.

@obi I found and posted whatt he likely is calling "harassment".. see my post for the deets

I think I found the only post he could have possibly meant by "harassment". I want to post it here for the record, as this was the last communication we had before his server blocked me.

In short he had boosted an inflammatory (and outright lie) about QOTO. It was about one of our features and it lied about how itt worked in order to frame us as privacy violating, despite the feature respecting post privacy.

Since me and David at this point were on very good terms as far as I knew I was personally hurt by this but responded respectfully. I even made sure to do it in private so he didnt feel attacked. Attached our the interactions from me that he considered "harassment", as you can see I went out of my way to be considerate.

A shame he wouldnt post the evidence itself, probably because he knew if he did it would discredit his accusation... really a shame.

@tonic

I think I found the only post he could have possibly meant by "harassment". I want to post it here for the record, as this was the last communication we had before his server blocked me.

In short he had boosted an inflammatory (and outright lie) about QOTO. It was about one of our features and it lied about how itt worked in order to frame us as privacy violating, despite the feature respecting post privacy.

Since me and David at this point were on very good terms as far as I knew I was personally hurt by this but responded respectfully. I even made sure to do it in private so he didnt feel attacked. Attached our the interactions from me that he considered "harassment", as you can see I went out of my way to be considerate.

@david

@obi Given the magnitude of his accusation I wouldnt bet on it.. but lets hope.