@mike
You made me laugh when I read your post😊.
I have to admit I may feel this way too when it happens.
I think things have changed so much in 15 years!
I was walking a lot before and i don't as much.
I wanted to ask you why would it be bad to give if not a shovel but some parts of your garden to your kids.
That can actually help you out (?)
https://medium.com/invironment/permaculture-and-kids-ba5a8d441765