@waltercool I always had a gruff beard, so shaving at all is a bit out of the ordinary for me
@freemo What made you decide to go nakey after sporting a beard?
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Not sure if i will. At a minimum i will use it to shave the space around my beard.
But even with a beard I usually shave it off every month or two and then let it grow back. When it gets too long it annoys me and I like the do over... I may stay clean shaven for a while this time though, I dunno. I think im just bored :)
@freemo Well, i'm not all that interested in the shaving itself, more in the social aspects.
But if you are interested in wearing a beard: it's got to do with patience. There is a period of time where it is annoying (and prickly), but hold out long enough and it gets comfy.
Upper lip needs a trim from time to time (short prickly period) or maybe that's not a problem either and i am not patient enough either ^^
@admitsWrongIfProven My issue is if the beard gets too long I start to play with it and it develops into a habit and feels like a nervous tick. This starts to happen around when the upper lip or lower lit is longer than maybe a mm or so.
The rest of the beard I can tolerate quite a bit longer, but that has a similar problem when it gets too long.
@freemo Sounds like you need more patience. And maybe a bit of self esteem in the self image department.
I was told playing with my beard might get me picked on, but in reality other things are much more of a problem. I did play with my beard while reading your toot, and i don't have problems because i do so from time to time.
If you care for your beard, or stroke it while thinking and then someone complains, a mild smile is generally all that is needed.
In all situations where i need to project a certain image, beard-fuddling does not play a role. I'm much too busy to treat unknown-unknowns as friends to stroke my beard.
@admitsWrongIfProven It has nothing to do with patience or self-esteem. I dont particularly care if anyone thinks different if they see me playing with my beard... I dont like it for personal reasons, like i said it feels like developing a nervous tick or something.
In short, having a long beard starts damaging my mental health... probably some mild relationship to trichotillomania or something.
@freemo Oh wow, i had to look that one up.
Of course, i was just talking about stroking, not pulling hair. If you're given to that, it seems a short trim makes sense.
@admitsWrongIfProven well it starts with me twisting and stroking.. once it becomes habitual the act starts to annoy me and eventually I want to shorten or pull the hair so as to stop the playing with it. It takes several days before id start pulling it.
Ifi do anything repetitively/habitually I'd get increasingly frustrated I think.